Hexagram 54: The Marrying Maiden
歸妹Guī Mèi
Clear eyes about where you stand.
The passages below are historical language. Their references to fortune, danger, and the exemplary person belong to the text’s world. Our modern explanation is an invitation to reflect on your situation.
The Judgment
Classical Chinese
歸妹。 征凶,無攸利。
Our English rendering
The Marrying Maiden. Advancing brings misfortune. There is nothing favorable.
The Image
Classical Chinese
象曰:澤上有雷,歸妹。君子以永終知敝。
Our English rendering
Thunder is above the lake: The Marrying Maiden. A person of integrity considers the lasting outcome and recognizes deterioration.
Translation note: The title refers to a younger woman entering marriage and retains the established name 'The Marrying Maiden.' The Image's compact final phrase links lasting through an ending with awareness of deterioration; it leaves the exact relation between them unstated.
A modern reading
Thunder above a lake brings movement to a surface that had its own shape. The Marrying Maiden places that disturbance within the image of entering a marriage. Its Judgment is starkly unfavorable about advancing. For reflection today, the scene can raise questions about entering an arrangement whose terms are already set. The attraction of joining deserves to be considered alongside the position you would occupy and the choices that would remain available once inside.
The Image asks for attention to the lasting outcome and to deterioration. An arrangement can look acceptable at its beginning while containing tensions that become clearer with time. You might examine how a proposed role would change after the first excitement, especially where your ability to speak or act is limited. Looking toward the ending can help expose an expectation that would be hard to sustain. The question concerns the structure of the commitment itself.
A question to sit with
What would your position in this arrangement allow you to do, and how might that position feel over time?
Source and method
The Judgment and Image are classical passages from the Book of Changes. The English rendering and modern explanation are Meow Ching’s editorial work. This page covers these two passages; it does not translate the six individual line texts.
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